Thursday, April 28, 2011

pic of the moment

The "Harmonica Man"

(Ann Arbor, Michigan)

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Top Ten Tuesdays

On a rotational basis and based purely on my own opinion, I shall start "Top 10 Tuesdays". I figure this will get me to post more regularly. Topics will vary depending on whatever I feel like at the moment.

Top Ten Things to do during Finals Week (if you're not a student)

1. Catch up on sleep
2. Read for pleasure
3. Take time to cook dinner
4. Have a cup of coffee or tea and listen to some music
5. Organize and clean... everything...
6. Skim through old journals and blogs
7. Go for a jog
8. Finally answer all those starred emails
9. Call folks and catch up
10. Pray for the students taking finals!

... and try not to rub in the students' faces that I don't have to take exams :)

Monday, April 18, 2011

story time!

a re-post from October 31, 2006 (from my old blog)

very short stories.

Hemingway once wrote a story in six words ("For sale: baby shoes, never worn") and is said to have called it his best work. Here are some stories from well-known authors across genres and mediums.
- taken from "Very Short Stories". Wired Magazine. Nov. 2006.

machine. Unexpectedly, I'd invented a time
-Alan Moore

Longed for him. Got him. Shit.
-Margaret Atwood

From torched skyscrapers, men grew wings.
-Gregory Maguire

Epitaph: Foolish humans, never escaped Earth.
- Vernor Vinge

IT'S BEHIND YOU! HURRY BEFORE IT

We went solar; the sun went nova.
- Ken MacLeod

To save human kind, he died again.
-Ben Bova

Lie detector eyeglasses perfected: Civilization collapses.
-Richard Powers

TIME MACHINE REACHES FUTURE!!! ... nobody there...
- Harry Harrison

Nothing I did. Was a gift.
-JY

You can only use six words.
Meaning, only six worded comments accepted.
Okay, maybe not only, but try.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

training

I just got back from another weekend "training" with the Marine Corps. Although at this point, the word "training" is a bit of a misnomer because "training" implies that there is a main event one is getting prepared for in advance. This may have been true for me about a few years ago, but alas, I am "checking out" - ending my stint in the Marine Corps in the next couple of months. So, any kind of opportunity where those skills gained during "training" can actually pay off is out of the picture.

I'll save you from the long back-story and boring details of how and why I got to this place where I'm at now with the Marines.

So just a little on what went down this weekend:
We did a demo range. We blew stuff up. Since I am 99% certain I will never work with demolitions again, I thought to myself, "What can I take away from this weekend?"

Really, it was the small things that I noted/were reinforced:

1. Getting one another's backs or looking out for your own is infinitely more important than gaining anything for yourself. Because if you look out for others - those "others" will look out for you. If you only look out only for yourself, you will find yourself all alone.

2. Brilliance in the basics - don't overlook the basic, small things - like hygiene and physical fitness. Just do them everyday and do them well - they're like long term investments. They pay off.

3. Just keep it real. Nobody likes a suck-up or a "motard".

4. Everyone's cold, everyone's miserable, everyone's tired, everyone's hungry. The one who can get past these givens and still charge on ahead will benefit from that experience. No matter what.

5. I will take someone who has initiative with poor judgment over a passive person any day. Any day.

6. Transformation is making progress.

There's a young Marine when he first came in was extremely shy and unsure of himself, I'll call him Steve. Steve kept to himself, rarely socialized and seemed really out of place. The rest of us worked hard at him, doing everything and anything to help him adjust to life as we knew it. A few years later, Steve's really coming out of his shell. He takes the initiative, is developing as a leader and is visibly more self-confident. He's always putting himself out there, failing many times, getting humiliated even - but he learns from his failures and mistakes and doesn't get down on himself. Though Steve is still a bit socially awkward, doesn't exude machismo and not who you'd deem the Marine Corps prototype - his teachability and genuine personality makes him one of the more loved Marines in our unit.

Some Marines try really hard at fitting into whatever they perceive is the Marine Corps mold. Who can blame 'em? Most are 18 year olds who haven't quite discovered themselves and are just trying to be accepted into a culture of what they deem as ultimate manhood. But Steve got it right. He doesn't fit into the Marine Corps mold. Instead, he's kept true to himself and is willing to learn new things along the way. He's molded the Marine Corps experience around himself so that it's become a part of him, but he has not based his entire identity on the Corps alone.

That's the very lesson an older, wiser Marine tried teaching me in my first year in the Corps. "Semper Fidelis" means not only doing what you're supposed to be doing, but to keep true to yourself and your own faith first. I'm glad that in my final year in the Corps, I was able to witness the truth behind his words, exemplified by a young Marine just starting off in his career. I trust having that old lesson reiterated to me again this past weekend is good preparation for what's to come for me after I'm finished with the Marine Corps. I guess that counts for good training.